Always smiling but not happy

As people make funny faces for their kids to make them laugh they are amused by the facial expressions and are forced to let out a laughter, which satisfy the huger of the people for their chuckles. Although this may seem like it but it’s certainly not the moment of birth for smile. The birth of smile goes deeper with in the subconscious. A human’s greed is a gaping hole in its mind which pushes him to a never ending endeavours. Although, He have been told to try and try again to achieve his goal, no wise-man ever said to blindly duplicate the efforts towards the same goal. Keeping that in mind, he make same funny faces again and again to the babies in his frail attempts to hear their giggles. As a result it loses its charm just like a joke loses its humour after being told a many times. Furthermore, He is not willing to learn, therefore he continue these attempts, while it makes the infant chuckles for a few times its gets really tough for them to laugh at it. As a result of that they get annoyed and frustrated by the unstoppable attempts of adult to make them laugh. To stop the adult an infant tries to fake their chuckles. Although, it is not a laughter it still satisfied the adult and they leave the infant alone. Furthermore, this process is repeated every time an adult annoys an infant with funny face or an infant is unable to find humour which genuinely forces roar of laughter. This is the moment where a smile is conceived.

Now these kids are grown up and are teenagers, they gather with friends and share jokes. In their amicable gathering they don’t imitate laughter but instead they share roars of genuine laughter, at the same time they give out an ounce of smile but it is immediately replaced by a loud chuckle. This is where smile flourishes, the nourishment of smile continue in friendly gathering of family and friends. But somehow smile which is only the trigger for laughter is more important and is socially more acceptable as an expression of happiness then the laughter itself. Moreover, it is a calamity to social norms to effuse laughter in the conversation. As a result of that, many of the declamation require people to be ecstatic without a show of laughter. For this reason, everyone counterfeit an expression of happiness on their faces. Although, this expression is pleasing to the crowd, it lacks the sensation of bliss. As it is mere mockery of true phrase of happiness.

Moreover, a smile is not an only expression of happiness, it’s a laughter in transition. It is not hard to stretch one’s lips and move on to a healthy chuckle, but it is injurious to one’s true persona to demonstrate something that is not genuine. This is to say writers and readers smile when they feel the delight from within which comes from the word of a book, friends and relatives smile when they feel the warmth of their heart, the feeling of joy and contempt lashes out on their faces. But people who fake smile on their faces have dedicated themselves to act in public, to be seen, to be known as someone who is always joyful. As a result of that, everybody is programmed to hide their grief and sorrows and fake a smile on their faces to please other around them. This is only because not everybody is willing to share the pain but they are keen on sharing your jubilation. Therefore, by smiling the only brand of people you will make friends with, are the ones that will feed on your happiness and refuse you of any relief for your misfortune. In order to get grief sharing friends one must show them the true identity of one’s self. To smile on genuine feeling of bliss from within their heart, to give a loud chuckle uncontrollably right after.

In conclusion, being true to one self is genuinely living; to express emotions freely, to laugh hard with happiness, to jump with joy, to hug for love, to let out tears in pain, these all indicate the true sensations. Being true to one’s feelings is the only way to come out of the cage that they themselves have created around by imitating their feelings. One should not murder their persona in order to please other. It is always healthy to let people know of the true self and let them decide, this is the only way to be truly free.